Tuesday, November 30, 2010

Hershey’s Moderation Nation, My Review & The Giveaway

A while back I was contacted by MyBlogSpark to do a review and/or giveaway on Hershey’s Moderation Nation.  I’m always up for being a apart of something that is trying to promote a healthier lifestyle.  In America we need a wake up call where our health is concerned, so I agreed to be a part of this promotion and chose to do a review and will also be giving away a Hershey’s Moderation Nation Prize Pack that includes a tee-shirt, journal and yummy bag of Hershey’s treats :o) 

So, what do I think of Hershey’s Moderation Nation?

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Overall, I think it’s a great idea.  The website talks about exercise and physical activity and even gives events that you can attend nationwide.  It talks about portion sizes with your meals and offers sample menu options.  They mention keeping a journal of your progress, etc. Their heart is in a great place by wanting to help people and it could be a good starting place for some.

I’ll start by saying that they did put out some good info and some yummy recipes like the  Double Chocolate Peppermint Pattie Cookies (after all, they are all about chocolate and I sure do lurve me some DARK chocolate!)  I just always tweak my recipes and it’s ingredients to make sure they are good, healthy and organic if possible.  I also prefer REAL dark chocolate (over 62% cocoa) over milk because milk chocolate is full of extra added sugar!

The website (Hershey’s Moderation Nation) does offer some good info on portion sizes and they even have a pdf of visual objects for portion sizes, which is good.  If more people knew this – they would probably realize how much more they are eating at every meal than they really should be eating.

They speak of keeping a journal and journaling is also something I think more people should do.  When I work with a client I tell them to start by journaling their eating for 3 weekdays and 1 weekend day – before I even go into anything to do with an eating plan.  It’s amazing how people are shocked at how much they are eating and didn’t even realize it.  Then I think it’s good to journal if you are having any health issues, because you may be able to narrow down some things and begin to notice how your body reacts to certain foods.  I am currently using the journal they sent me for a food journal.  Many of you know I was having some issues over the past year and I started journaling some things down for myself.  It’s been good for me.  Had I not gotten the journal from them, I may not have started!

What didn’t I like all that much?

The one aspect of the information given on the site that I was not impressed with were the food choices.  As a Health Coach and someone who is passionate about truly eating healthy, their food options did not make my cut for being healthy.  In fact, many things they suggest will actually wreak havoc on your body and cause many health problems if people consistently consume them.

Without going into crazy detail on why I oppose those things – I’ll just say that suggesting you use margarine instead of butter is a huge no-no in my book.  Remember my post about margarine vs. butter called “Fat or Plastic. You Choose”? Well, suggesting that eating a man made product that is full of toxins and chemicals that is basically plastic is not a good choice when trying to improve your health and eating habits.  Too many people are consumed with the numbers of a certain food item (fat, calories, etc) – which isn’t always bad, especially when eating pre-packaged foods.  It becomes bad when you put the numbers over the nutritional value of the food and try to replace it with a man-made product that your body doesn’t know what to do with.  Eating margarine over butter to cut back on calories and healthy and natural fat your body needs is crazy.  Just saying.

In their Moderation Lifestyle Tips they had this listed:

“Skim milk provides the same vitamins and minerals as whole milk – with less fat. Since the fat portion of whole milk does not contain calcium, when you take out the fat, you do not lose calcium.”

I was trying to figure out where they got that information.  It is proven that when you skim milk and remove any amount of fat you lose many vitamins, minerals and essential enzymes.  You already lose a large dose of those in the pasteurization process, then even more when milk-fat is removed.  Also, people are so consumed with the ‘fat’ in milk and the calories it adds, but here’s what people don’t realize:  The ‘fat’ in milk is a natural, healthy fat that our bodies need!  They NEED! Our cell renewal process needs saturated fats to do it’s job.  Our brain function is dependent on healthy fats – as is a women’s ability to be fertile and conceive.  Our doctor’s want to remove all fat from our diets, including healthy fats (which man made fats should be complete removed) and in return all these health issues are cropping up and they don’t know why.  Also, skim and fat free dairy is a factor in the rise of Diabetes (Type 1 & 2) as well as hypoglycemia and hyperglycemia.  The reason for this is because the fat in our whole milk contains enzymes that help our bodies digest the milk-sugar and it allows the sugar to be released into the bloodstream slowly, which means the insulin will be released slower and there will not be a dramatic insulin spike or fall.  When you skim the milk/dairy, you remove the enzymes that help promote easy digestion of the milk-sugar and the sugar is released too quickly into the blood and you have yourself a major insulin spike.  You will also find that you drink more skim milk than you would whole, because it is not a filling drink when all the fat is gone.  Healthy fats help aid in the satiety hormone being released, telling your body that you are full.

Other things they suggested using were Canola oil which is poisonous to our bodies.  That is a post in and of itself.  They mentioned crackers, cereals, granola bars, etc. as a part of this healthy eating plan, but those are all processed foods.  Even if they have some whole oats or grains in them – the other 101 ingredients are toxic to your body – not to mention the high sodium content in pre-packaged foods.  They spoke of cutting back using egg yolks in your cooking and baking to cut back on cholesterol and fat.  I won’t even go into how wrong and off that is. 

I realize this is the most convenient way for many people to eat, but as a company that had a panel of experts, I would have expected better knowledge being presented to the public.  Most people won’t research this kind of stuff.  They will take the info and run with it, especially from a national brand like Hershey’s.  Unfortunately, when you have the wrong information, you can end up damaging your health in more ways than you know. If you are knowledgeable, you can take the info and recipes and substitute good stuff for the bad stuff.  That’s usually how I work with most recipes anyway.  Knowledge truly is power!

So I wasn’t overly impressed with it all, but I am glad to see that nationally known brand companies are starting to step up and encourage people to a healthier lifestyle!  Hopefully more companies will follow their lead!

ps…I have hardly eaten any of the peppermint patties that I got.  Bella thinks they’re too ‘spicy’ and Scout doesn’t quite get them. The cooling peppermint freaks him out a bit – haha!

All you have to do to enter the giveaway is to leave a comment and tell me why you want to take a step in improving your health!  This will stay open until Saturday, December 4, 2010 – midnight!  You do not have to follow my blog to enter!

The fine print:  Hershey’s, through MyBlogSpark, provided the product and information for my own review.

 

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“Research tells us fourteen out of any ten individuals likes chocolate.” 

~Sandra Boynton

Monday, November 29, 2010

The Past Couple Weeks

The past couple weeks have been packed pretty full for our family and since we are 2 days away from December – it doesn’t look like things are slowing down any!

A few fun things that took place over the past couple weeks are:

One Saturday I was a little out of my mind when I decided to bake cookies with my 3 helpers.  One small kitchen, 3 humans and stepstools and chairs = cranky mom!  They sure looked cute though.Photobucket

Bella did her first belt testing for Tae Kwon Do and passed!  Woohoo!  She went from a white belt to a white/yellow belt!Photobucket
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My little fuzzhead finally got his first real haircut in 21 months!  He went from looking like this:Photobucket

 

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I got my Christmas craft ON and made some Christmas Card display holders that I saw in Martha Stewart’s Living magazine! I’ll post a picture when they actually have cards on them :o)
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Bella had a Thanksgiving feast at school.  She was a pilgrim girl!
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Then, Thanksgiving snuck up on us last week!  Here are my Layered Banana Cream Pie with Shortbread dishes!  Oh my goodness, this was and IS uh-mazing!
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My cute kids on Thanksgiving Day. There’s a bundle of love that I’m thankful for!
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Me and Hubby!
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Scout at Granny Bev’s house.
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Bella jumping in the leaves at Granny Bev’s house.
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Then I pulled out my photo blocks so I can post my ‘how to’ on my blog.  Took the pictures, but still have yet to write the post!Photobucket

I also found something in my yard that made me think of Julie’s ‘luggage watch’ posts and realized I had her beat!  This concrete block has been sitting in our back yard in this very spot for almost 5 1/2 years.  Yes.  We had this bag of concrete sitting here while we were putting up a fence in our yard, it rained, this got wet and it hasn’t moved since.  Hubby calls it a memorial stone for all the hard work he put into the fence.  I call it being lazy :o)Photobucket

And then we put up our Christmas tree this past weekend.  Yes, the kids helped and no, I didn’t move any ornaments around after they went to bed.  I was just a big stickler as they put them on and had to keep reminding Bella that when there are already 3 ornaments hanging off one branch – it’s time to move on girl, and put them somewhere else!Photobucket

And most of all I have been spending lots of extra time with my kids.  I decided to not spend so much time on the computer and more time with them and I have really enjoyed it.  So have they!Photobucket


Then for a bit of miscellaneous news, I have made a final decision regarding the future of my blog!  After a lot of thought, I have decided that I will be shutting down “p.s. love.love.” on December 31, 2010. I will moving over to WordPress, but I am starting a new blog with a new title and it will be somewhat similar to this, but at the same time it will be different.  They actually have a widget now for a blog roll, so I can still keep up with everyone on blogger.  Hopefully you’ll follow me over when I move – but if not, I won’t be offended!  Promise.  Sometimes you just know when a season of your life is changing and I’ve reached that point with my blog.  I have new things I want to do and say, so I’m starting with a clean slate!

I will be finishing up my Project 365 this month (and I need to catch up with the past couple weeks still).

I will finish up my ‘What I Saw When I looked In The Mirror’ posts.

I will keep blogging throughout December with recipes, crafts and photo updates.

Then I’ll have a final farewell for p.s. love.love.

Then I’ll be publishing my blog into a book to have with me and my family always!

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2011 is already showing to be a full and exciting year.  In January I will be starting my certification process for Personal Chef.  I’m excited for that.  I don’t plan on being a personal chef, but I want to take what I learn in this process and apply it with my nutrition plan and then I want to train people!

Also, I have been approved to teach a 12 month (or longer) class at my church regarding Health and Nutrition.  I am very exciting for this.  So, it means I need to create the curriculum for the class, which will take me quite a bit of time.

I am also going to pursue my Doula certification next year.  There are so many things I want to do and I figured it’s time to do them!  I’m not getting in younger, right?

Most of all, I want to be ‘present’ for my kids.  These are truly such fun years with them and I needed a reminder of that!  I was putting things before them that didn’t need to be priority over them.  They are my life and I have chosen to make each day count with them!  I have enjoyed every minute so far (okay, well not EVERY minute, but you know what I mean!)

Have a great Monday!  I hope you all had a wonderful Thanksgiving break!

Anybody interested in the Layered Banana Cream Pie recipe?  I can post it if you want me to!

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“At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, not winning one more verdict, or not closing one more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend, a child, or a parent.”
~ Barbara Bush

Monday, November 22, 2010

Special Buttons

Last week during breakfast, Bella looks over to Scout who is drinking his milk from his sippy cup and says with so much excitement:

“Scout, you’re such a big boy now!!!  You don’t have to drink your milk from mommy’s special buttons anymore!  I’m so proud of you.”

You gotta love big sisters!

Happy Thanksgiving week! 

There is so much to be grateful for!

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“Live with an attitude of gratitude!”

Dr. Jerry Savelle

Friday, November 19, 2010

Christmas Card Fanatic

I’m one of those!

For the past 18 years, I have never missed a year of sending out Christmas cards. Many years I hand made them and they were so cool, but that was before I was married, had kids and was left with no time!

Enter in photo cards! 

Whoever invented those should get some kind of award. I truly mean that.

Some photos, printed text, and envelope and you’re done.

For my this season of my life – that’s perfect for me.

I have heard some say that sending out a photo Christmas card is a copout!

What do you mean?

I’m still putting my love, time and money into them.  I just can’t write a book to each person I send cards out to (I think that’s what the people want – the personal, yet often mimicked, seasonal greeting).  That number is around 60 families/people.  It was at 120 a couple years ago – and I cut it in half last year because, well, seriously – 120 cards?  Crazy.

So, this year I saw this deal from Shutterfly where I could get me some FREE Christmas cards (okay, so they used the word Holiday Card – but I forgive them) and for a photo card enthusiast – how could I pass that up?!!!  Even if it meant having to do a blog post about it (which I normally don’t like to do), but FREE CHRISTMAS CARDS! Too good to pass up!

I already went through all their Christmas card selection – and there were many – and narrowed it down to a few that I really, really like! I like to have multiple photos, because I can’t pick just one.

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I’m also a calendar girl.  Okay, that doesn’t sound right.  Not THAT kind of calendar girl – but I have calendars all over the house.  I also have clocks all over the house. Hmmm, could this mean something?  So, I was thinking I’d get me a calendar.  Yes, I said me :o)  I can get gifts too!

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Then I found their Canvas Art!  Hello – that is so me.  I like to have photos of my family, friends and pets covering my walls – these are so cool!

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Question for you all:  do you like getting the photocards from families that have the whole family or just the kids?  Believe it or not, I have heard some people say they don’t like the parents on the card.  Is this a faux-pas that I was unaware of?

Well, get your own FREE Christmas cards from Shutterfly if you need an easy and quick way to do them this year!  Bloggers get 50 free holiday cards from Shutterfly… sign up: http://bit.ly/sfly2010

It hit me that Thanksgiving is next week, which means my tree goes up after that and then WHAM the season is in full swing!

Better get started now!

Have a great weekend my friends!  I did want to let you in on a secret {not that it’s a great secret}, but I am thinking about moving p.s. love.love. over to WordpressEEEEEEKKKK! Will keep you all informed of when that will be!

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“I will honor Christmas in my heart, and try to keep it all the year.” 

~Charles Dickens

Thursday, November 18, 2010

What I Saw When I Looked In The Mirror Part 2

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My nose.  My ears.  My teeth.  My freckles.

These were all the things kids liked to make fun of me for when I was in Junior High.

Up until then, I can’t recall even thinking about little pieces of my appearance such as these.  You just lived your life without really giving those things a second thought.

But, for some kids in school – my physical features made good laughing points, I guess.

When I look back, I think it set the tone for the years to come and how I saw myself.

Now at the age of 35 I get irritated when I think of time and emotion I wasted on those people.

Careless people.

The thing is, the things they said, still tend to pop up every now and then – 22 years later.

Every time I wear a baseball hat, I am self conscious because I think my ears stick out too far.

Every time I see a profile of my face, I notice my ‘crooked’ or ‘non smooth’ nose.

Every time I smile, I think my teeth are too big.

Every time my freckles appear more noticeable in a photo, I notice and wish they weren’t there.

Why?

These features make me who I am.

Every freckle, the dimple in my chin, my imperfect nose.

This is who I am, but I didn’t like those things about me for so many years.

When high school came around – it was a whole new ball game.

I never encountered so many rude people.  Not just with me, but watching how other people were treated.

They’d make fun of the clothes you wore, the brand name of the backpack or bag you carried.  The kind of car your parents drove or the house you lived in.  They’d find fault with how you did your hair, what you ate for lunch, how well you did in class, how much you had a passion for something.  Whatever they could find to nitpick about you – they’d do it.

I vowed never to be one of them. I’m happy to say, I never was.

Never the less, because of these kids, not only did I not like my nose, ears, teeth and freckles – but many more dislikes were added to my list, all because of comments made by other people.  People that today – have no meaning or value in my life.  I’m not demeaning them as a person, but I haven’t spoke with many of these people in 17-20 years – so why did I let their words take root inside my heart and cause me to not appreciate who I was as a person?

I grew up in a very loving and encouraging home.  I never got talked down to or made fun of (outside of sibling rivalry, but that was normal).  I guess you could say I had a good balance of the good and bad.  I can honestly say that I never allowed these things to bring me to a point of depression, eating disorders, body cutting, suicidal thoughts, etc. – but I can look back and see that I gradually became a person who was critical of herself, her looks, her social status and more.

There was only so much I could do to fix these problems everyone else seemed to notice and point out about me.  When I was 16 I drove myself to the dentist and had them file my front teeth down.  Four years of not wanting to smile with my teeth showing was enough.  This was all I could think of to fix my teeth problem.

I stopped wearing baseball hats, which I liked, and started wearing more floppy hats and hats from the flapper era.  They covered my ears and I didn’t have to worry if people were noticing my ears sticking out.

I began wearing make-up and started using foundation to cover up the freckles on my face.

As for my nose – there was nothing I could do about it!  I inherited that thing and it was there to stay.  No way was I going to get a nose job.  Yea, um, no!

I started dressing funky and even making some of my own things.  Talk about a real life ‘Pretty In Pink’ situation.  I would put those mini micro braids in my hair (thanks to my mom and grandma for helping), I’d wear black ‘granny style’ boots with funky dresses.  Way back then they didn’t make low-rise jeans and I have extremely high hips and all brands of pants would rub on my hip bones and rub my skin raw – so I’d get some guys jeans from the thrift store and just roll the waist down for my own low-rise jeans.  Yes, everyone made fun of me for that – little did they know that would become the style 2 years later :o) I just tried to be different and tried to be confident, on the outside at least.

Now for everything else that came with a high school education.  Degrading comments, comments made in passing and usually in jest, and a growing poor self image.

I found myself thinking I wasn’t pretty.  Some people might agree, which is fine, but every person should be able to look at themselves and see the beauty they possess – inside and out.  I never had the right hair style, I couldn’t apply my make-up to look decent, my clothes didn’t display the Esprit or Guess brand name (did I just date myself – that was years ago those were the most popular brands).

Now, don’t get me wrong.  I wasn’t this girl who walked around with her head hung low, disappearing into the crowds everyday at school.  I was friends with pretty much everyone.  Seriously.  I wasn’t a part of the ‘popular’ crowd – and every school has one of those – but I had tons of friends.  I was and still am a friendly person.  I like people.  I enjoy having different friends with different interests and hobbies.  It makes life interesting.  I had friends in the ‘hippy’ group, the ‘heavy metal’ group, the ‘thespian’ group, the ‘sports’ group, the ‘art’ group, the ‘newspaper’ group, the ‘leadership’ group, the ‘geek’ group….you name it, I had friends in every category.  I never walked around wallowing away in pain or misery.

I kept on living – just with a poor self image.  I laughed, had fun, learned tons, joined the Poms team for my senior year and graduated with a 3.8 grade point average.

Yet, in the middle of all of that I felt my thighs were to fat, my butt was too round and my mid section a little too poofy, if you know what I mean.  My Pom uniform had a really short skirt.  Short enough so when you walked up the stairs those behind you could see the horse shoe emblem on our Pom briefs.  That short.  I hated wearing it without leggings because I thought my thighs looked way to big.  My smile still wasn’t filled with perfectly straight and beautiful teeth, my hair was never right whether it was straight or had a spiral perm (and oh, did I rock the spiral perm look!!!!), my eyes were just average blue while so many people I knew wore bright colored contacts, my car was a piece of junk – no exaggerating, but I did pay for it all by myself :o), I never owned a pair of Keds and to top it off, my parents gave me a curfew. Like that helped when everyone else’s parents could have cared less how late their kids were out and about.  I only would find out later in life how wonderful it is to have parents that care.

All in all, a poor self image became the normal way of life for me.  I allowed little comments, situations and ideas take root in my heart that I should have never let in.  I will say, I am so thankful that the celebrities we looked up to back then actually wore clothes.  We didn’t have as much to be envious about when you couldn’t see every inch of their body!  Seriously.  Today girls have the expectation of showing as much skin as possible in order to be considered beautiful.  This was not something we dealt with when I was in high school.  None the less, a poor self image does not just vanish and go away over night.  In fact, unless you actually make the effort to change that image inside of you – it will only stay there and grow worse and worse.

I am looking for photos right now to pull out of me from this time in my life.  They would have been perfect to post in this actual post, but I’m having a problem finding my photos from back then.  You’ve seen all my storage in my basement before – there’s lots to go through – so I’ll have to post those in another post.

In my next part of this I go into how my poor self image stayed with me for 7-8 more years after I graduated high school.  Through my engagement, wedding and first years of marriage.  It wasn’t until Bella was a couple months old where I saw a home video of me on our honeymoon and actually realized for the first time that I had to have thought poorly of myself.  I knew for the first time what an anorexic or bulimic sees when they look in the mirror – no matter how tiny they are, they see fat.

This was an eye opener for me because it was a very subtle issue that was so subtle – it seemed normal.  My friends, it is not normal and I will do all I can with my children to make sure they do not grow up being deceived about the value of who they are, inside or out!  I want them strong enough where the opinions of people don’t sway how they view themselves.  The old adage, “Sticks and stones may break my bones, but words will never hurt me” is the biggest lie.  Words can lift a person up or they can wound a person’s spirit!  It’s up to us how we let the words and voices of others affect us.  I learned the long, hard way! Hopefully we can help our daughters and sons not go the same route!

Thanks for reading, I know this was long!

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"Always be a first-rate version of yourself, instead of a second-rate version of somebody else."

~ Judy Garland

"Do not wish to be anything but what you are, and try to be that perfectly."

~ St. Francis De Sales

Wednesday, November 17, 2010

Trampoline Fun

These were taken while we were in Texas a couple weeks ago!  I hadn’t been on a trampoline is over 25 years, but Bella forced me.  It was fun, but tiring :o)

I enjoyed watching the kids have fun and listening to the uncontrollable giggles. 

Hubby was off hunting, so my beautiful friend, Jenny, took these pictures!

Bella in a full action shot!

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Yes, it even made me giggle too!
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Happy Wednesday!

Tomorrow I will have part 2 of my post “What I Saw When I Looked In The Mirror”!

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“We worry about what a child will become tomorrow, yet we forget that he is someone today.” 

~Stacia Tauscher

Monday, November 15, 2010

Where Did It Go?

How does time manage to go by so fast?

I have these moments when I have a hard time with my kids growing up so fast.

One day they’re tiny and fit in my hands…

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The next day they are 5 1/2 years old…
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…and 21 months old.
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Like I always say…I blinked.

Although I enjoy every stage of my children’s life, I sometimes have to ask myself if I really cherished every stage.  When I look at photos like these taken a week ago on our vacation – I feel like I missed something.

May I not miss anything as they continue to grow.

Life is about our kids.  Our family.  Creating memories. Growing.  Launching out.

It’s best to to hold tight while I can and make sure I never feel like I’ve missed any part of their lives.

Thanks for listening.

Just some rambling from a mom have one of those moments.

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"Time is a companion that goes with us on a journey. It reminds us to cherish each moment because it will never come again. What we leave behind is not as important as how we have lived."
~ Captain Jean-Luc Picard from Star Trek

Friday, November 12, 2010

Project 365, Days 297-303

Project 365, Days 297-303

These were photos from Halloween week: school parties, harvest carnival, pumpkin carving…

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“Harvest Carnival 2010”
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“My Beautiful Kiddos”
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“Princess Belle at her School Party”
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“The Night Before Hair Prep”
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“The Day After”
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“The Finished Project.”
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“Brown Sugar, Cinnamon and Butter Roasted Pumpkin Seeds”
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Head over and join at Mommmytography!

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“Stop worrying about the potholes in the road and celebrate the journey!”

Barbara Hoffman

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